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Abandoned Careers

By Don Richards

I remember well when my niece had a potential singing career taken from her by those who had no appreciation for an emerging young voice …. a career that might have taken her to the heights of international acclaim as an operatic Diva or at least to the stages of Broadway.

Her young and promising voice was first stilled by a chorus of “Hush up!” from an unappreciative audience traveling with her from her mother’s ancestral home in Kansas to Tucson in 1931.

The final and complete stifling of her singing career came from those who were expected to reach out and guide a gifted voice to the heights of recognition and success … instead, as a member of the Tucson High School Choir, she was pointedly asked by the music teacher to just stand in the Chorus and mouth the words, but for goodness sake don’t let out a sound.

Why this denial of opportunity? Why the crushing of this young girl’s hope and dreams? Simply, it was because she could not carry a tune — could not hit a note that anyone could recognize.

But this brilliant young girl was not to be denied her claim to recognition and fame in some other field of endeavor, and truly believing in ” try and try again,” she turned to the culinary arts. Collaborating with her uncle, a connoisseur of chocolate fudge, she took her first step to a new potential career. Using an age-old family recipe, ingredients were measured and combined and made ready for cooking to the degree of specified perfection.

Only to fail again … The fudge was lovely to look at, creamy, with smooth sculptured form but too salty to eat. A teaspoon ingredient of table salt had been translated in the mind of the chef and her collaborator into a TABLESPOON of salt … Neither the chef nor the collaborator, nor siblings could eat it … So much for a culinary career.

I will leave it to others to tell how this very capable and very very intelligent young woman had successful and rewarding professional careers … I could speak to that, but then I might get teary and who wants to see her uncle cry?

Snapshots

Some photos of Billie that are readily available.  More will be posted here later — please contact us to add yours.

Obituary as published in the Tucson Daily Star and Citizen

Billie Jeanne Underwood died peacefully January 19, 2009.

She will be dearly missed by her children Mark (Ann), Kris, Cele, Page (Phillip), Beth (Jeff), Ross (Sue) grandchildren Blake, Preston, Loren, Rachel, Cole, Emily, Seth, sister Joanne Kartchner (Dean), brother Jay (Margaret), uncle Donald (Brenda) Richards, numerous nieces and nephews, and friend Eugene Scott.

A native Arizonan, Billie’s adult life began as a commissioned nurse in World War II (Good Samaritan Hospital) where she met and married Captain Don Robert Underwood in 1948. After raising six children, she embarked upon an academic career,  graduating Phi Beta Kappa with a PhD in Psychology from the University of Arizona, and retiring as a Professor at Pima Community College.

Billie was committed to many civic causes, including Head Start, Pima Council on Aging, Common Cause, Southern Poverty Law Center, and Planned Parenthood.  Much to the chagrin of some of her peers, she was an early contributor to MoveOn.org.

A memorial service was held at St Marks Presbyterian Church (3809 East 3rd Street, Tucson, AZ) Saturday January 24 at 2:00p. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Helen Keller International.

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